Family stress

Haiz... Once again I feel I been left behind again. No one understand my feeling.. I stress in work and back with stress. My heart is broken and tear. After married, my relationship with family become poorer. Sometime, when I back, it seen like I'm not suppose be there. Brother and sister act that too.. I'm wondering why it happen to me!! Married is wrong?? Married mean cut down all the relationship... Oh god!!!! Beside, I love my wife too.. Just sometime I need more care from her. I just need care, love and understanding... I'm feel stress and sad...  

Stress on my company trip

Omg... I'm so stress about my company trip. Actually I not feeling to go Bali with colleagues for company trip. This is because I been left behind and no one bothering me and I prefer staying and enjoying with my family, wife and my little baby. Unfortunately, company already booked the air ticket and I'm stress how to reject the trip.. God!! Help me up.. 

Alternative Way to Voice Out

I'm so stressful and I'm looking forward for alternative channel to voice out. Sometime, when i wish to voice out through FB, it may not convenient for me.  Sometime I really wish they understand me and sometime not. Therefore, I choose blogger as my alternative channel for me to voice out. Thanks god ^^ 

女人為什麼願意男人抱著睡覺？ (一定要看哦!)

你可知道
當女人被男人脫去自己的衣服
一絲不掛的在他面前
是需要多少的愛

你可知道
女人為什麼會背朝你睡
因為她不喜歡看你的背影
如果你以後抱著她睡
她會安心一整個晚上

你可知道
女人把每一次的愛情
當作是初戀
也是這輩子最後一個來愛

你可知道
女人那麼愛吃醋不是因為不相信你
而是你在她心中太美好
她不希望這種美好倒映在別的女人眼中

你可知道
深愛你的女人在沖你發火以後
自己卻轉身不斷哭泣

你可知道
當女人頂著哭花的臉
走在街上
不管是不是有人在看她時
她的心已經快要死了

你可知道………

她只會對她愛的男人嘮叨
也只會對她在乎的人耍性子

你可知道
她的任性 她的壞脾氣
其實都只是在對你撒嬌
希望你更重視她

你可知道
假若她不愛你
她根本不會對你發火
不會希望你去哄她
更不會為你掉眼淚
因為她不愛的人沒那本事

你可知道
當你離開她
留下她獨自一人
她有多大的期待和恐懼
而這一切都只是因為她愛你
而這一切都因為你還不夠懂她
女人知道太多不該知道的事情
男人不知道太多該知道的事情

於是.你們爭吵.你認為她脾氣不好.她認為你不夠遷就她……
於是.你們冷戰.你以為她沒有完全接受你，她以為你不在乎她……
請給她一個擁抱一個吻.用你的擁抱你的吻去化解她心裡的悲傷和眼角的淚水.
因為她只是害怕你的冷漠、轉身和安靜。

兩個深愛的人在一起，就要
互相包容，互相理解，互相體諒，互相信任，
否則當你們真正失去時將會遺憾終生。
否則美好的未來也就在你們自己手中泯滅了！
希望每一個男人都能夠好好珍惜陪伴在你身邊的女人
她們為你付出過，不求回報
卻希望你們能夠讀懂，能夠牽著她們的手堅定地走下去
不要讓愛你的女人流淚
不要讓她傷心
更不要讓她絕望和死心！
因為女人一旦真愛了，失去她愛著的人
就意味著失去了整個世界...

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Ceramah Jelajah Maruah (Muafakat Rakyat Anti Fitnah & Lucah) - Part II

The event above just break up during middle of the speech by YB Azmin Ali. During YB Azmin Ali given his speech reach the climax while waiting for Dato' Seri Anwar Ibrahim, the police, ICDP, and FederaI Reserve Unit (FRU) stop the event. They told YB Azmin Ali that if he continue given his speech, they will catch him. Besides, they also unplug the PA system.

Furthermore, they also warning the organising representative that they will come out the official letter to catch him due to he having the function without approval.

How come BN they can show the sex video during their event but not for us since we are the state government? Why we cannot voice out for our right? What is the freedom to speak up for our human right in Malaysia?

The Singapore already make the change. Singaporean is treat as Kia Zheng Hu (scare government) but they has change the leadership. So how about Malaysia? Can Malaysian make up their mind? Let make a change for this PRU13. Reformasi!!!!!!!!

Ceramah Jelajah Maruah (Muafakat Rakyat Anti Fitnah & Lucah)

Anjuran AMK Malaysia & Kerjasama PR Klang)

Tempat: Markas Pas Taman Teluk Gedung Indah

Tarikh: 7hd Mei 2011

Masa: 9.02 pm

Penceramah:

Dato' Seri Anwar Ibrahim (Ketua Umum)

YB Azmin Ali (Timbalan Presiden Keadilan)

Sdr Shamsul Iskandar (Ketua AMK Malaysia)

YB Khalid Samad (YCP Pas Shah Alam)

YB Dr Mariah (Ahli Parlimen Kota Raja)

YB Xavier Jayakumar (Ahli MPP Keadilan Pusat)

YB Mat Shuhaimi Shafier (Adun Sri Muda)

YB Charles Santiago (Ahli Parlimen Klang)

AGM for Persatuan Penduduk Intan Mutiara (Fase 2A & 2B) Klang, Selangor (PPIM)

On 10^th April 2011 at 8.00 pm, residents have an Annual General Meeting for PPIM which been held between Lorong Batu Nilam 13 E & 12 F. At first, the meeting is under control until the issue of security renewable and the payment collection. A lot of the resident unhappy when raise up that change a new security they need to pay more without guarantee that the security system will be better. Meanwhile, the resident facing a lot of difficulties on the security system at this moment due to they are not enough tight on the security. These issue raise up until some of the resident back with black face due to they are not the majority to maintain the present security and have to come across to pay more for future security. So end up, we may just maintain for another 3 more month again. After the issue, a lot of the member back home and doesn’t involve for the new appointment committee. We are very happy due to the Dato’ which since earlier we wish him to become our committee but he don’t want until today he nominate him as a committee. New committee is pleasure to have such a power and support of our PPIM adviser. Meanwhile, I’m appointed as Setiausaha of PPIM. Actually, a lot of people want me to become a Chairman PPIM but I feel I’m not suitable due to I still very fresh and long way to learn for elderly and experience people. As a conclusion, thank you for all the resident and committee supports.

10 stupid things people do on social media (Do you agree?)‏

Social media is named aptly so because it's a tool to be social. Unfortunately, there are many amongst us who do the most inane things on Facebook and Twitter that makes you roll your eyes, drop your jaw and sometimes is downright pathetic.






1.People who think their every movement should be announced.
We know you're bored whilst sitting on the toilet. But maybe, instead of tweeting about your bowel movements today, as you always do, maybe you should read about what's happening in the world on Yahoo! News for a change. Likewise, we don't need to know how much milk your "hardworking breasts" lactated for your newborn. True story!


2. People who change their relationship statuses every other week.
Make up your mind - are you single? Are you in a relationship? Is it complicated? It's not too hard



3. People who are in a relationship with their BFF
You might think its so kawaii to be in a relationship with your girlfriend, because you are best friend forever- its NOT! Grow up.



4. Setup Facebook accounts for your 2-year-old kid, or worse, your dog!
We'd like to see the day your dog gets trained to log on to his own Facebook account.


5. Woe is me statuses.
You know those people - ‘my life sucks because my daddy doesn't want to get me a yacht for my birthday' or ‘this is the worse day of my life because my husband cancelled on dinner because he had to work to support my extravagant lifestyle.' Suck it up and stop.


6. Adding People You Don't Know
We're not sure what it is - to up your ‘friends' numbers or to seem like you're friends with the cool kids. When you add somebody, a pop up screen comes on telling you that you should "only send this request if you know him or her personally." How do people miss this disclaimer?


7. Write on a Facebook Wall instead of communicating privately
The driving force behind the success of Facebook is...vanity. People love the idea that others are watching what they're doing. But seriously! We don't need to know what names you call your boyfriend and what you're planning to do to him tonight.


8. Tagging drunken pictures of your friends
Yes, it's funny. But chances are, his boss and his mother are also on Facebook. You don't want to go out for a big one on a weeknight, have to call in sick for work the day after only to have your boss tell you that he's already seen photos of you sh*tfaced crawling in the gutter on Facebook. If you don't want that to happen to you, don't do it to your friends.


9. Children on Facebook
Facebook bans 20,000 kids from their site everyday, and we're glad this is done. Parents need to be more diligent with policing their children on social media, and they should be educated on social media etiquette in school. Sexual predators are nothing to joke about.



10. Animal Farms and Fish Tanks
I have a job, I don't want to feed virtual sheeps. You need to get off your computer and get a life.

7%‏

Written by a 90 year old

This is something we should all read at least once a week!!!!! Make sure you read to the end!!!!!!

Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio .

"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written.

My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come...

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."

Its estimated 93% won't forward this. If you are one of the 7% who will,
forward this with the title '7%'.

I'm in the 7%. Friends are the family that we choose.

Live the life you want to live.

be the person you want to remember.
make decisions, make mistake, if you fail, at least you tried.

Resignation

Recently, I’m stress on my work. All my shipment has been upside down and can be say so all the shipment facing problem. While, in between I also got received a call from a famous work agencies and they get my information in the job street. They didn’t mention of its company just ask for my opinion and wish I can let myself a chance to try with a multinational corporation (MNC) company. After gaining my approval, they have requested 59.09% more than my assisting salary from that company but I don’t take it seriously. One day, the agencies calling me again and fix an appointment with me. At this first time when I hear about the company I reject their request. With her kindness and please, I been agree let myself a try for the interview.

Actually I just feel to have a try on the interview and don’t mean I can get the job. But my heart feels that since is a chance for me, so I have been prepared my proposal accordingly. On the day of interview, I just feel that MNC company interview normal and nothing special. During the interview is very smooth. Suddenly, the HR Manager feels that I got the potential and called their Managing Director to interview me. During the period, I didn’t feel excited and react as usual. Maybe this is the reason, they interested on me. According to the HR Manager they will inform me once they finalize.

Actually, I don’t feel anything and not to dream I will work in the MNC company. But the day is come, I has been received their call on my interview report and they wish I can join to build up their company. At first, I reject their request but after the HR Manager speech, I just consider it once again. During the 24 hours thinking and discuss with family, friends and lecturer, I accept their promotion.

After clarify everything, my problem raise up again. Thousand of reason in my mind which make feel that my present company management also has a very good income and benefits. I really wish that I can use my hand to build up my present company. But, according to some of my clients, friends and the most important is my family, they wish I can go out from this small area to develop my career since I still young and long way to go.

Actually, I doesn’t mean to resign at this moment but my letter already put on my Manager desk hopes he will consider seriously and wish he will not though this is a April Fool from me. Finally, I really thank for my Manager and colleagues during the term I served in the company.